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DEBRA OPENED UP MY EYES TO WHAT I REALLY WANTED OUT OF MY CAREER AND ULTIMATELY, MY LIFE AND FUTURE. SHE HELPED ME OVERCOME FEARS THAT PREVENTED ME FROM CONSIDERING OTHER POSSIBILITIES.
LESLEY BIDLAKE

It matters because it matters to You.

Have you ever made yourself thoroughly frustrated trying to convince someone about what really matters? In the early 90s I tried to explain to women, who really just wanted a flattering shade of lipstick and a good moisturizer, that slight rises in temperatures of the globe really mattered. I tried to advise parents to stay…

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When Not to be True To Your Word

You’ve heard it said, “You’re only as good as your word.” Being true to your word is great … except when it isn’t. Now I’m all for doing what you say you’re going to do, making vows and commitments and sticking to them, even when the going gets tough. Being true to your word is…

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How Much Is Enough?

Growing up I never got the concept of enough. As a toddler I’d stay up until the wee hours of the morning, out lasting many of the grown ups because I didn’t want to miss a thing. As a young adult I said YES to everything, was constantly over-booked, running from one project to the…

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The Joy of Anger. Or why I disagree with the Dalai Lama.

Actually I’ve never met the Dalai Lama. I’m basing this only on what I’ve read. And perhaps I’m misinterpreting his words. Maybe if we sat down over a cup of tea or shots of tequila I’d discover that we’re saying the same thing about anger: That it’s just energy, and moving it and expressing it…

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Emotions are meant to move.

If you joined The 30 Day Love Explosion you may be thinking that it’s all rainbows and happy faces in my world. If so, you don’t know me. More acurately – you don’t know all of me. Those who’ve worked with me privately, been on retreat, taken a class with me, or are part of…

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The Secret of Slowing Down Time

Something wonderful just happened. I turned 50. All the time leading up to it people kept saying things like:  “I can’t believe it. Where has the time gone? 50 already, how is that possible? It goes so fast. Life is flying by.” I knew what they were talking about. In my thirties I had a…

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It’s never too late to Love.

Did you forget to drop a love bomb yesterday? Have you forgotten for several days? Hey, it happens. As Malcolm London says, “Even the richest man can never purchase yesterday”. You can’t get it back so let it go. All you have is today – this very moment. And there will never be a better…

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10 Love Bomb Ideas.

I thought you might like some ideas for dropping love bombs. Pitch a sign on their lawn for all their neighbours to see. Slip a tip to the local barrista to read your love bomb out loud when they call your person’s name.* Wouldn’t it be great to hear – “Jeff your latte is ready…

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Your Love Makes a Difference

It’s wonderful when you get to see and feel the difference your love is making in someone’s life. It’s great to see them bask in the glow of your love. It’s fun to know you’ve put a spring in someone’s step, helped them see the best in themselves and shine their own light a little…

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Expectations & The 30 Day Love Explosion

You were excited to start The 30 Day Love Explosion. You began dropping bombs on your chosen one. You noticed how good it felt to express yourself. How easy it was to find something new that you love about this person each day. How fun it was to shower them with your love. It caused…

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