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DEBRA OPENED UP MY EYES TO WHAT I REALLY WANTED OUT OF MY CAREER AND ULTIMATELY, MY LIFE AND FUTURE. SHE HELPED ME OVERCOME FEARS THAT PREVENTED ME FROM CONSIDERING OTHER POSSIBILITIES.
LESLEY BIDLAKE

How to Accelerate your Success

When I worked in venture capital, entrepreneurs would pitch me on their business. I’d determine if their product or service met our criteria, if there was a viable market for it, and most importantly, if i believed in the leader. Was this a person (or team) that could do the job, did we want them…

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How to Rock Your New Year’s Resolution.

Fresh Start. Blank Page. New Beginning. Do you love the possibilities each New Year brings? If so, it’s because it resonates with your limitless self. That expansive essence of you that is the source of all possibilities. Yippeee 🙂 If not, it’s because you’ve experienced enough unfulfilled resolutions already. Meh 🙁 The positive potential inspires many of us to create…

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Always Follow A Generous Impulse

Each and every day generous impulses rise with in you. Follow them. They’re immediate, pure, and unconcerned about results. They are  expressions of life wanting to live, love wanting to love. You feel them before you think them. They evaporate if they are not acted upon. They are the smile, the laugh, the kind word or act without…

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Peace And Where to Find It.

I’ve just finished reading Peace and Were To Find It, by Chris Papadopoulos. It’s a straightforward directive for accessing your true nature. I loved that he gets right to the heart of the matter. Peace is your natural state and getting to it is simple. It’s the first book I’ve read that really matched my own…

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How to get more done when you’re already overwhelmed.

  Over the years I’ve worked with clients who want to do more. The only problem is, they’re already overwhelmed by what they’re doing. Sound familiar? Adding more to do would never help them get where they want to go. My strategy is this: #1 Eliminate. #2 Delegate. #3 Dominate. While you can do this with any area of…

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The other way to overcome your resistance.

There are two ways we usually deal with resistance: 1. Push through it. 2. Succumb to it. There are times when pushing through resistance is exactly the right thing to do. Until this summer when the ocean where I live became very warm, every time I’d go in I’d think “It’s too cold”. I’d want to…

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August in LA is Silent

August in LA is silent. Like a Midwestern morning after a long night of snow. My windows are open, but no breezes blow. Everything is perfectly still. Dry heat presses down on us like an insulation blanket. Protecting us from the sound of one another. Dogs don’t bark. Birds don’t sing. Children are taking long…

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Five ideal conditions for growth.

This weekend my girlfriends took me to dance to celebrate turning 51. (My birthday had actually come and gone but I’m all for dragging out the celebrations). The theme at dance was outgrowing the shells that contain us. While our facilitator, Michael Skelton, took us through a process of feeling the shells we are living…

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The 30 Day Love Explosion. Your Questions Answered.

  If you’re new to The 30 Day Love Explosion you probably have a few questions about how it all works. Click on the questions below to find the answers. You’re welcome. 1. Why should I choose only one person? 2. Is it better to choose a relationship that’s rocking, or should I choose one…

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Why Focus on One? The 30 Day Love Explosion

In the age of multi-tasking, multi-plex theaters and multi-orgasms you’d think I’d ask you to Love Bomb as many people as possible during The 30 Day Love Explosion, because more is obviously better, right?  Wrong. The 30 Day Love Explosion is a time to Focus. That’s why you pick just one person. Did you ever…

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